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Fish activities in Wales

Monday, August 3rd, 2009

The first fishy activity I partook in recently was going swimming.  As many of you know, I was morally against swimming for a long time.  I’m against any activity where the result of not exerting enough effort is death.  But then I met Zora, and she changed my life.  Recommended to me by my friend, J, who took classes with her at Stanford, Zora made swimming go from life-threatening to bearable to manageable to fun.  She also turned my friend, K, into a tri-athlete after he took swimming classes with her, so she is truly an amazing teacher.  With the whole dissertation and moving out of the country thing, I haven’t actually been swimming in a couple of years.  I signed myself and K up for Adult SwimFit once a week for 8 weeks, and the first class was last Tuesday.  I was expecting a butt-kicking and I got it!  I probably should have gone once before the class just to get my swim legs/arms back but I recklessly went in without any practice.  I was the first one to take off from my lane, and I was in for a big shock when I realized that I was not supposed to be swimming on the right side of the line!  Sure, I know they drive on the left here, but swim on the left???  I was unprepared, but it made sense.  But it gets more complicated: each lane actually has its own traffic regulations so sometimes it is swim on the right only, others it is on the left only, and the fast lane uses both sides.  Something to do with the current of the pool and the speed of the swimmers.  The other thing I noticed was that British chlorine is really strong and burns my nose.  It may be a good time to invest in nose plugs like the ones I recently saw in the world championships.  Lastly, all the cultural scripts I have for swimming (lane etiquette, locker room conventions, communal showers) are called into question here.  On the one hand, they are Europeans so surely stripping down in the locker room isn’t a big deal.  On the other hand, they are British and privacy is a big deal, so surely that is what the dressing rooms are for.  And how am I supposed to observe the norms in a locker room?  I haven’t quite figured out yet but maybe by the end of the 8 weeks I will.

The second fish activity recently was actually going fly fishing!  I fell in love with fly fishing while reading Norman Maclean’s “A River Runs Through It”.  I also saw the movie, but the book’s descriptions were what really convinced me that I had to try it.  I got my first chance on Sunday when R offered to take us to Llyn Berwyn and show us the ropes.  He has been fishing for a long time and at that lake twice before.  It was a beautiful spot, although the weather was cool and windy.  I didn’t catch anything but R did!  A beautiful brown trout.  I hadn’t quite prepared myself for the eventuality of the fish’s death, but R made himself a nice dinner out of it.  I’m hoping that I’ll continue fly fishing without ever catching anything!

R teaching me the ropes

R teaching me the ropes

R reeling one in!

R reeling in his dinner!

R reeling in his dinner!

I'm gonna eat you!

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Sharing A Secret

Wednesday, June 24th, 2009

I have a confession.  I actually like watching the US men’s national soccer team.  I know that is something that shouldn’t be said too loudly in some circles in the states, but I feel the buffer of the Atlantic ocean and my proximity to England has given me confidence to bring this out in public.  Unfortunately, coverage of the men’s soccer team in US media is only slightly above the US men’s national rugby team.  Did you know that there was a national rugby team in the US?

I have been surprised to learn that the BBC has televised some Confederations Cup games on the tele here.  So I managed to catch the last half of the Italy match (ugh!) and the second half of the semi-final match versus Spain.  The game was great to watch even if it fell into one of the two patterns of USA soccer:

  1. Fall behind early, look disorganized, and hope no more goals are given up.
  2. Get lucky and score first, collapse 9 men in the box and hope the other team can’t score.

To be fair, they executed #2 to perfection and even got lucky to poke in a second goal at the 74th minute.  It should be noted that their 3-nil victory over Egypt came out of nowhere.

Good luck USA in your Confederations Cup final against Brazil or South Africa.

As an aside, I was only able to watch the second half of the matches because the games were played on Mon. or Wed. and I was at Welsh class.  But tonight was the last Welsh class of the year.  I passed! (Of course if there were grades I may not have.)

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Welsh Invasion

Wednesday, May 27th, 2009

The Welsh are taking over America, one Miata MX-5 at a time!

Even 8 timezones away, they do love their Dragon!

Even 8 timezones away, they do love their Dragon!

Photo Credit: D

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Romanes Eunt Domus

Saturday, May 16th, 2009

People called Romanes they go the house!?”  Why does everything in this place come back to Monty Python (and here and here)?  Anyway, yesterday I decided to join IAC for some lunch at the Canolfan y Celfyddydau and, it being a nice day, we decided to make the most of it outside on a picnic table.  After I sat down I noticed that there was the typical graffiti: I (heart) Gareth, Rachel’s Boobs (complete with a picture of two circles with dots.  Come to think of it, maybe this was the psychology table.  Then my eyes scanned across to this:

This is motion to war isn't it boy?

This is motion to war isn't it boy?

This made me realize that I can never truly be Welsh, or at least as an authentic Cyrmu Cymraeg.  I think it most funny that it had to be corrected.

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Six Nations, Bragging Rights for a Year

Sunday, March 22nd, 2009

I should have posted earlier but didn’t and I offer this up with more thorough observation.  Wales is known for a number of things, coal and slate miners, men’s choirs, sheep, despising the English, and rugby.  It is these last two that combine ever-so-perfectly in the annual festivities known as the Six Nations Championship.  The championship is a rugby union (not league) tournament that expanded from the four UK countries (Wales, Ireland, Scotland, and England) to include France and Italy.

Watching the 6 Nations in Scholars

Watching the 6 Nations in Scholars

Wales are the defending champions where they won the Grand Slam and Triple Crown.  Unfortunately, this year their repeat Slam aspirations were dashed by the pesky French.  However, after a less than impressive victory over the Wooden Spoon winning Italians set Wales hosting Ireland for the 6 Nations Championship, Triple Crown, and, potentially, Grand Slam (for Ireland) on the line.  The game was hard fought and close throughout with Wales only succumbing to Ireland on a missed 50 m kick at the end of regulation.  So, Wales which was fighting for the Championship falls to Ireland and ends in 4th place (out of 6!) and Ireland wins their first Grand Slam in 61 years.  Guinness for all this weekend.

After watching four of the five Welsh 6 Nations games, I made the following observations:

  • Picking up the gist of rugby is not that difficult coming from American football
  • Welsh national rugby has united the country more than anything else I have seen in the six months I have been here, although the Poppy Appeal is a close second.
  • Watching the 6 Nations games has allowed me to bond with my colleagues at work.  I may not know what the fly-half does but I can pretend to be critical of Stephen Jones’s kicking.
  • I still miss March Madness
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More observations

Thursday, March 5th, 2009

I am very excited about our visitors who are coming to Aber soon!  S and G will be our first US visitors followed by K and his parents.  I’m crossing our fingers that it will be good weather although the weather has been very fickle lately.  It was -2 this morning and I had to scrape ice off the car but then it was a bright sunny beautiful day with a high of 10!  Nutty.

I had a few more observations about little things I’ve noticed here and thought I’d post them up before I forget.

-I have had to relearn how to write a check (or cheque in British English or siec in Welsh).  You would think it would be the same but there are little things like writing a dash instead of the decimal point that is different.

-I miss girl scout cookie season.

-I still don’t have any idea what to listen for when I dial a phone number.  I can’t tell when it’s busy (or engaged as they say here) or ringing or disconnected or if I’ve done something stupid in dialing.  I also still don’t understand the phone number differences and why every number is a different cost to call.

-Even though part of why I moved here is to live in a society that isn’t so work-focused, I still find it hard to not be.  Sometimes I get up at 5, go into work (or go downstairs) and work for a few hours before Dan and Siena get up.  I’d rather do that then stay late and cut into our evening/weekend time together.  It doesn’t really bother me, I just feel like I should do it because I want to get my work done.  You can take the girl out of America but not the American work ethic out of the girl I guess. (Don’t worry, there are plenty of times when I only work from 9-5.30 or wake up at 7am instead of 5am.)

-I just saw my first newborn lamb of the season and they are freakin’ cute.  I wish I had gotten a picture, but it was riding in the passenger seat of a car, in somebody’s arms.  I wish I were that somebody.

-It is very strange that there is only 1 tailor in town.  Do people only get clothes that fit perfectly here?  I’m certainly not any of the store sizes.

That’s about it for now.  I’ll pull a M & J and ask who is still reading this blog, anyone?

Next stop: London!  We go there in one week for 3 nights!

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I Owe My Soul to the Company Store

Saturday, January 17th, 2009

The new year marks the beginning of my new job as an electronics design engineer at Aber Instruments.  I was hired around Thanksgiving with a start date of January 5th.  This marks my first forary into the (cue the scary music) corporate world.  Well, I don’t consider my two years working part-time at Best Buy as counting.

During the two weeks that I have been working, I am reminded every now and then about the differences between the private sector and the (public) academic world.  Every university where I have worked has not been a small outfit (> 10,000 employees) so there are layers and layers of bureaucracy, various rules and regulations that come from “higher ups”, various software programs that no one knows how to work and never do what needs to be done, and the perpetual ability to always claim that others are preventing you from working.  At a private company, and a smaller one at that, the chain-of-command is well established and everyone from the high-ups to the down-lows, theoretically, all have the same goal, make money for the company.  Is the admission dept. at a university invested in the workings of the alumni outreach or athletic department?  Does the research performed in a history department directly affect the livelihood of the university’s public relations department?  I am not saying that the university environment is inferior to that of a (small) company, rather they are different and are serving different means.  For me, as part of the university establishment in various capacities for the past 12 years, making the switch to the other side has been…educational.

Unfortunately, I will no longer be able to take advantage of the academic pricing for software and other things.  That makes me realize that the 80% discount we were receiving was actually a good deal.  That said, the private sector operates as much on time as money, so if something can be hurried by spending more money then capital is spent more often than man-hours.  I just wish my graduate work fit the same principle.  Following off of that, it becomes the case of how to get something “good enough” to market quicker rather than get a better product out at a much later time.  This mentality is more of a product of the acquisition of grants, I suspect, than any half-assing of a product.  In a (profitable) company, there is always a later time to improve and expand but you need revenue always coming in, for a grant you are time and finance limited, when the grant is done, it is done, and you have to seek more money elsewhere.

Stepping down from my soapbox, I am really enjoying my time there.  I am meeting some great people, learing a lot about some new fields, and enjoying getting paid!  Now maybe some day in the near future I will actually contribute something to AI.

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Wisgi a mêl

Monday, December 15th, 2008

Last week marked the end of our first semester of Welsh class.  One of the last lessons that we had concerned being sick.  Among other things we learned how to say “I have a head ache” (Mae pen tost da fi) and “I have a cold” (Mae annwyd arna i).  While I tried to find out how to say “I have the Black Death” (my instructor wouldn’t oblige), I did learn about home remedies for colds.  I can understand my Amero-centric point of view about the world, I never expected the culture shock I received.  D, the instructor (or tutor as they call them here), went around the room and asked what “Mom’s Mum’s” homemade cure for the cold.  I was expecting chicken noodle soup or the local equivalent; bacon noodle soup in Canada, chicken matzah soup in Israel, pollo tortilla soup in Mexico (anyone I haven’t offended yet?).  Nope, in fact D was completely surprised when I said “cawl cyw iâr/chicken soup”.  For the record, I haven’t learned what noodle in Welsh is yet.  She gave one of those “Oh”‘s that slips out when you think “Really!?  He seems to know what he is talking about but it could just be he used the wrong word in Welsh, he is learning the language.  Then again, he isn’t from around here and I shouldn’t judge.”

This is what I hear going around the room:

“Wisgi a mêl”
“Wisgi a mêl”
“Wisgi a mêl”
“Wisgi a mêl”
“Llaeth a mêl a (some other things)”
“Wisgi a mêl”…

Yes, ladies and gentlemen, when the Welsh get a cold, they drink whisky and honey!  Lemon is occasionally added too.  Then there is the one Polish woman in our class who replaces the whisky with milk and adds some other things that I would prefer not to name (garlic).  Doing some out of class follow-up research of our Welsh friends, we find that not only is that the common panacea but it is even given by mothers to their children!  Another lesson learned about the US, prohibition may have ended 75 years ago, but we are still a nation of teetotalers.

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Welsh birthday

Tuesday, December 9th, 2008
The whole family on a mini-break!

The whole family on a mini-break!

For my 30th birthday, Dan took me and Siena on a mini-break to get away from the hectic rural life and everyday stresses of living in a town with (gasp!) 7000 other people.  We drove to North Wales and spent the weekend at a lovely B&B on Lake Vyrnwy (or Llyn Efyrnwy in Welsh) which is the water supply for Liverpool.  Luckily, the weather was cooperative that weekend, meaning it didn’t rain.  It was very cold, but we were able to bundle up and drink lots of tea and hot cocoa.

Great views all around the dam

Great views all around the dam

The stone dam itself is stunning, but around the lake, there are also wooden sculptures, including a sculpture park across from our B&B.

Dan and Siena with a sculpture of a feather

Dan and Siena with a sculpture of a feather

On one side of the lake, there is a straining tower which filters out the yucky stuff that people don’t want to drink, but it looks like a pretty turret of a castle!

StrainingTower

Straining Tower

We had some really nice hikes around the lake and to the waterfalls, and Siena encountered pheasants for the first time.  Considering those are the birds that she is bred to hunt, she was very excited to flush them and go chasing after them!  It was like Siena was born to live here because the other cool thing about this part of the world is that we can take her everywhere with us.  Not only was the B&B perfectly happy to have her stay with us, we were also able to take her to dinner at a local pub on Saturday night where she met some friendly terriers.

Taking these sorts of trips is exactly what we’ve been looking forward to in moving to Wales.  We may eventually get sick of the beautiful countryside, rolling hills, and picturesque old buildings, but I can’t imagine how!

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Grocery Shopping, Another Little Thing

Sunday, December 7th, 2008

In my not very extensive worldwide traveling, I am beginning to pick things up about other cultures.  I am learning that one of the best places to “get to know” a new culture is through their grocers.  Grocery stores, at least abstractly, are a part of almost every culture.  They can be giant warehouse type buildings (e.g. Meijer, Wegman’s in the US, Tesco in the UK), or they can be a series of convenient stores, to a collection of store fronts and stalls.  Everybody has access to a place to buy groceries and that store or stall or market or whatever is a product, itself, of the society in which it operates.  Secondly, the vast majority of the population buys their groceries from these places so that each store must, in turn, service a broad cross section of the society.  Now, yes, there are grocery stores that target different demographics (e.g. Whole Foods, Aldi), but (inter-)national grocery chains must be appealing to everyone.  I am struggling to come up with another aspect of culture that exists at a similar level across different cultures, yet offers such an unvarnished view of the individual culture itself.  (If you think of others, add a comment)

Things of note about US grocery stores: Much of the floor space is dedicated to processed foods with an emphasis on branding.  Walk into a general support market in suburbia and you will find twelve different companies that are trying to sell you canned corn, corn that probably all comes from the same place anyway.  Furthermore, while the US is obsessed with overindulgence it is also obsessed with diets, US food packaging is all about the health benefits of their product (even if their product is a triple chocolate fudge gut-exploding cake).  While their product may have 3,000 calories per serving (who eats just one serving anyway?), they will tell you it has 25% less fat/sugar/carbs with no artificial something or another in comparison to their “original” product.

Now we come to British/Welsh groceries.  Presumably because of the EU market zone, there exists a lot of emphasis on the Britishness of the products in the store, especially when it comes to meats.  The Union Jack or a “British” word thrown in between “smoked” and “bacon” lets the buyer aware of the local nature of the food.  While I am all for shopping locally for the environmental benefits, this Britishness goes beyond that as if the food producers are threatened by the open EU marketplace.  Continuing on this theme, I have found it much more difficult to find Continental food products than I did in the US.  I have been here almost two months and still haven’t found Italian or Polish sausage (today I just found Chorizo/Chourico) but can find a dozen other types of British sausages.  I have had limited choices on my Parmasean cheese purchases, and no peppers but bell peppers are in produce, although there are about ten different kinds of potatoes (yum!).

Then we come to the “ethnic” aisle.  We have these in the US too, a small section of various Chinese/Japanese/Thai/Mexican food stuffs (for some reason, all of the European foods are mixed in with the rest of the American foods).  They, too, have “ethnic” aisles or half-aisles here but these sections include some American food!  The Cokes and Pepsis are in their own place however.  What is most interesting about the “ethnic” aisle is the cornucopia of products produced by America’s great uncle, Ben.

A small selection of Uncle Ben's finest

A small selection of Uncle Ben's finest

Uncle Ben is known stateside as the fine chef who figured out how to make boiling water and adding rice even simpler and quicker.  He has honed his craft with rice preparation in various quantities and through various methods and even occasionally adding wild rice or spices to the mix.  Over here, on the other hand, the venerable Uncle of Oryza has far outstripped his culinary prowess in the US.  Uncle Ben has his face on sauces from India, Mexico, America.  He promotes complete meals and mixes.  He is even in on Chinese and Thai cooking as well.  My only question is, “Uncle Ben, why have you been holding out on us in the States?  We made you!”  Interpret those last three words how you like (good, bad, corny).

On a personal level, grocery shopping here takes about 1.5 times longer than it did in the states.  I have no idea what the brands are and the store’s generic brand is everywhere and sometimes the only option (I can only get Morrison’s peanut butter).  Also, there is no such thing as heavy whipping cream or corn syrup or 2% milk, so I spend five minutes in front of three or four products trying to figure out what is equivalent or close enough (answers: don’t know, golden syrup, semi-skimmed milk).  On the flip side, not having preconceptions of the products or foods is somewhat liberating.  If it looks good, buy it.  You are not burdened by social implications or ugly childhood memories.  I have bought one or two things and said why not?

Next time you are out of your normal culture, take a stop into a grocer and see what you can learn about them and about you.

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